Archive for May, 2008

Joy is Contagious

I love hearing life stories.  Every 20 something friend of mine is experiencing new and exciting life transitions.  A new job, a soul mate, their first place.  I can hear the excitement in their voices and see the happiness in their eyes as they share their experience.  Its a contagious joy that never fails to put a smile on my face.

I’ve been waiting for the next chapters of my life to be written.  And I know that the words and images will be an overwhelming joy that I won’t be able to keep to myself.   Can’t wait!

The tables have turned…

Recently at work I was asked to be part of a panel to interview final candidates for a job opening.  It was my first time interviewing and I loved it! Let me share some brief notes on what I was looking for and some do and do nots for interviewees based on my experience.

What I was looking for:

- relatable experience:  I wanted candidates to tell me what they did in their last job.  Specifically the type of environment, number of users, how they related to V.I.P users.

- personality:  Is this a person that the team can get along with?  That can relate to users.  Is the person confident.

- professionalism:  Is the person prepared?  Or does he have a care-less attitude.  You’d be amazed on how unprepared some people are.

DOs

DO give a firm handshake.  A handshake says alot!

DO remember names.  One thing I do is ask for names and create a map of sorts on my notepad to remember who is in the room and where they are seated.  If offered business cards…use that as your map and lay them out in the direction your interviewer or interviewers are sitting.

DO dress nice, but if your IT don’t overdue it.  We’re actually turned off by suits and ties.

DO come with a binder or notepad.  Write down questions to ask.

DO make conversation.  Let the interviewers in on your personality.  Make simple jokes, smile, be yourself.

DO give specifics.  Give examples and not just a “yes” or “no” answer.

DO make eye contact.  Be human for goodness sake!

DO NOTs

DO NOT come late!  Do I need to expound?

DO NOT wear jeans.  Again you’d be surprised

DO NOT lie or BS!  Interviews can tell when your lying.  We want to know what you don’t know…we’ll train you.  There is no perfect candidate that knows everything.  But, there is always a liar who will never get the job.

DO NOT look down and write when people are talking to you.

DO NOT sway or rock in your chair.  It shows off your nerves

DO NOT talk with your hands.  Its just annoying and distracting.

DO NOT flatter the interviewer.  Brown nosing is for moving up the ladder, not to get in the door.

Interviewing gave some unique insight to the hiring process.  Its amazing how much you can learn about someone in a few short minutes.  The interviewing panel at work was asked to rank the final candidates to the hiring manager today.  It’ll be interesting to see who he hires.  Regardless of his choice, I feel like I’ve gained another notch on the resume and another unique perspective into a all so important part of work life.

Heckling 101

Last night I went to see my beloved Cubs play the Astos.  My friend Justin, a die hard Astros fan, came up with some creative taunts against the Cubs.  “Let’s go Scrubs!” and “Go home Ryan Dumpster” were two of the better ones.  This morning a friend of mine gave me a link with some guidance on how to heckle the stupid stros.  This guide is a bit crude and rude…but I admit it made me laugh.  So here’s your guide on how to heckle any team in the MLB.

http://hecklersprospectus.blogspot.com/2008/02/houston-astros.html

Where do you sit?

If I ever had summer vacation back…

If I ever had the free time I’d might actually tackle this project:

http://lifehacker.com/391647/build-your-own-gmail-notifier-lamp

Its like the bat phone.  Minus the super hero costumer, evil villan, and city in dire need of saving…okay so its not like the bat phone…sue me!

Angelika Theatre

My musical tastes have always been off the beaten path.  Through word of mouth, myspace, and checking out local shows my iTunes Library is full of tracks you’ll rarely hear on the radio.   Recently, I’ve been discovering movies that follow the same theme.  Houston’s downtown is the home of one of the coolest theatres I’ve ever been to…the Angelika Theatre.  The Theatre features a few big budget films, but shines in their showings of independent and small budget films.  They maintain the excellent sound and screen quality of other theaters along with stadium seating.  These non-mainstream movies differ from the mainstream in their immense creativity and unique filming style.  Last night I saw the movie Son of Rambo and was blown away by the imagination of the story.  Check out the synopsis here: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0845046/plotsummary

The theatre is located off of Smith street in Houston’s theatre district.  Park in any of the Theatre District parking garages and hang on to your ticket…they’ll reimburse the parking cost at the box office.  Now there’s no excuse to check out this Houston gem!

For more information and show times:  http://angelikafilmcenter.com/

Mute Math Withdrawl

I can’t wait til the new Mute Math Album drops sometime this fall…i’ve read online that i’ll probably be in september.  And there is news that they are making a documentary of the whole process.  There is a blog up that hasn’t been updated in awhile, but its worth bookmarking:

http://goodwinfilms.blogspot.com/2008/04/shooting-mute-math-in-nashville.html

Paul Meany’s latest quote has me all giddy:

“In a lot of ways I think being in a band is sort of a marriage. You got to keep finding ways to reinvent it and keep it inspiring,” Meany described. “Our goal is to embarrass the first record, that’s what we’re trying to do here, and I think we’re on point to pull it off.” - http://www.ocregister.com/entertainment/band-meany-first-1997771-mute-video

Rock on Mute Math!  Rock on! 

listen & love

Its funny how I’ve been giving advice lately on things I have no experience with.  Everyone at or near my age seems to be in some stage of finding their soulmate.  There isn’t a week that goes by where I don’t give some level advice to someone who is trying to figure out where their relationship stands, trying to figure out if their current crush is the one, or just venting on finding someone all together.  I’m shocked at the words of comfort and edifying that comes out of my mouth.  I have very little experience to draw upon.  I think I’m recognizing that I’m growing in this wonderful and profound gift to be able to counsel…not to give direction.  I’m not making decisions for people…but just helping them clear their thought process.  Its simple really…just listen and love.  It shouldn’t surprise me then that God, the definition of love, gives me just the right words to say.  Love is where its at.